Tuesday, March 30, 2010

i just don't understand......

what the problem with a lot of couples out there that they don't, won't or can't allow there spouses to have friends out side of them selves. We are talking a friendship, nothing sexual.
Now what is a friendship??? Some one to talk to, to share a few silly dreams with, someone who might help you see things in a new light. Maybe even someone who encourages your dreams...
Male or female... does it really matter?? Well .. I'm really learning that it does. Especially if the other person is married and male. Am I really that much of a threat OR is it that woman dont trust their husbands to have a friend?? I happen to have a wonderful husband who thinks its great that I have friends out there. I think its wonderful that he has friends out there. People who share his interests.. in areas that I really don't know much about. Im happy to listen to his ideas... but i cant really contribute more and different ideas to something I know little about. Thats what other friends are for!

Now the male/female thing.... as I am a very happily married person I really don't want anything more then a friendship... I dont want to have a sexual relationship with someone else's hubby. NO cam, No MSN. sometimes I don't mind voice... as its easier to get ideas across then when typing ... BUT its not necessary...

ok ... I think im done my rant ...


1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Maybe it is all about control?? Trust?? Living your own life and letting them have theirs?? I like your note :) You are very lucky to have a relationship like you do. It is great and I don't think I would have it any other way when the time comes. Thanks for sharing :)
~leelee~