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Someone left a comment about the type of person my husband must be... in order for me to be able to talk with him about anything. I have to ask... what kind of relationship would we have if we couldn't talk with each other. i dont want a realtionship that i cannot express myself and my husband just nods his head and thinks im a silly female. There is far to much of that out there.

Knowing my husband as i do, i know he is interested in what i have to say and in what i am thinking. Sometimes my thoughts even inspire him. In his thoughts and actions.

i dont pretend to put our realtionship on a pedastel... it would only fall and get broken. We are not with out our own faults, both in our selves and our relationship. It's called being human.

BUT

i do know that after all these years of being with my husband (and actually talking with him) that he would never pretend to show interest in something or some one when he has no interest in these areas. NO, hes not a perfect person... i wouldn't want him to be...

As for him being open minded... lol* he would have to be, to be interested in the things that he is. All having nothing to do with my interests. although we talk about his interests, thoughts and ideas as much as we do mine. It's a sharing of minds... not just bodies...

A good... no a wonderful, but not perfect relationship needs a sharing of the minds. If a couple cannot be best friends and share everything then what is the point?? Just great sex...? what happens when thats not enough to keep two people together?? what happens if a couple doesn't talk, truely share their minds and the kids grow up and start their own lives?? the couple no longer know each other... they either start all over or the fall a part. they usually become starngers to one another. Its very sad to see happen.

OK I'm tried and starting to ramble.. OOps!

My husband would even understand that... and let me carry on asking questions all the while.