what is it with people?????

i can't believe how we let others treat us....

what is wrong with men out there....

what is wrong with women that let men treat them like.....

i dont think i have ever disliked men or women as much as i do right now tonight!!!

ok.... lets go to where this all started.... S I G H

a couple of couples that i know are in this spot of treating each other badly.... at least treating each other with out respect... or tenderness....

why does one get to snap their fingers and the other one jump to do their bidding.....

by what right does one get to isolate the other.... from family, friends and other loved ones?????

why does one have to leave behind their identity to please another person.... 

why does one have leave behind who they are and could grow to be to please another person....

I feel that im going crazy with these thoughts...

you know how in shows and movies people join cults and are slowly  taken away from family and friends???  well .... im watching this happen to a friend.... except its in a marriage...!

why cant it be more like what my hubby and i have???

ok.... no we dont have a perfect marriage.... no one does.

we have trust... respect and we still get to be individuals in a couple... 

i can talk to people and do my own things.... we are not one person.... 

we are still 2 people with in a couple!!!!

what makes a man have the need to dominate the woman in his life....

and why does she let him???

i am so not understanding this.....

is he that insecure and is she that needy?

or are those even the right questions???

it all makes me wanna scream.... !!!!

ok... im past ranting now..... mostly thanks to my hubby who lets me rant on till im done! <3

thank you love :D

PLEASE PEOPLE THINK ABOUT HOW YOU ARE TEACHING OTHERS TO TREAT YOU
AND HOW YOU TREAT THEM IN RETURN